Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Quit looking at me!

This is the newest thing that I have been getting. People see me, they say hello and then they glance at my stomach. What the heck is that all about??? Are they looking to see if I'm pregnant again? Well even when I was 8 months pregnant you couldn't tell I was pregnant at all. Or are you looking to see if losing my child did something to me? I really don't understand the look.

I wish I could say it was just one or two people doing it. But after I noticed these one or two people, I started noticing a lot of other people doing it too.

Do these people have magic ute glasses that I don't know about?

I don't know why this bothers me. It makes me feel a little self conscious when they do it. I'm constantly checking to see if I have a stain or got anything on me. So please.... just stop looking at my stomach. All you'll see there is fat.


  1. ((((((((((HUGS))))))))))) People did and still do that to me. It was awful for such a long time. All they saw was fat, too. I'm not sure what they were looking for.

  2. I wonder if it's like a psychological thing. Kind of like if you say "Don't think about pink elephants!" that's all you can think about. Maybe they're afraid of saying something to upset you over the baby you had in your tummy so they subconsciously look at your tummy? Other than that, I have no explanation.
    People are so weird. *hugs*